having people actually like you unconditionally without thinking you're strange or trying not to admit they think something might be wrong with you at the same time
i think it's only as weird as you two decide it is, to be a little blunt about the matter. what i mean is
this one friend of mine, i guess we're related in an alternate universe, something absurd like that, and we talked about it like 'my family isn't here, your family isn't here, it sucks for both of us so we can try that whole family thing if you want to'
so i guess what i mean is it's weird but it's just
whatever the two of you make it
i'm not saying i'd trust polnareff with caring for a small child for an extended period of time, but one could absolutely do worse when it comes to family, surrogate or otherwise
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Date: 2016-04-30 06:58 am (UTC)i'm just still trying to get used to this
i don't know if i'll ever really be used to it
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:00 am (UTC)that's what love is
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:05 am (UTC)having people actually like you unconditionally without thinking you're strange or trying not to admit they think something might be wrong with you at the same time
it's just weird and unnerving and
it doesn't seem real all of the time
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:06 am (UTC)like too. but also love.
and when it doesn't feel real we'll remind you
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:08 am (UTC)i knew you'd understand and that's weird too. people understanding was never normal for me.
ti voglio bene, giorno. you're a good friend and we're all lucky to have you around. we'd be a mess otherwise.
more of a mess
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:13 am (UTC)and mock you but also understand you
ti voglio bene
even though we're both messes
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:14 am (UTC)jojo and i are really fortunate you're good at keeping our brand of disaster under control
(polnareff too, but i don't think anyone can keep his brand of disaster in check all the time)
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:39 am (UTC)i'm sorry for sort of on purpose knocking you out of a tree a while ago
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:46 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2016-04-30 07:48 am (UTC)also it was all very strange
did polnareff tell you
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:54 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2016-04-30 07:55 am (UTC)isn't it?
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Date: 2016-04-30 07:59 am (UTC)i think it's only as weird as you two decide it is, to be a little blunt about the matter. what i mean is
this one friend of mine, i guess we're related in an alternate universe, something absurd like that, and we talked about it like 'my family isn't here, your family isn't here, it sucks for both of us so we can try that whole family thing if you want to'
so i guess what i mean is it's weird but it's just
whatever the two of you make it
i'm not saying i'd trust polnareff with caring for a small child for an extended period of time, but one could absolutely do worse when it comes to family, surrogate or otherwise